Nei Therapy & Energetic familytherapy

"Reset your energy, regain your balance"

Do you often feel tired, tense, or emotionally out of balance, without a clear reason?

Does your baby cry a lot, sleep poorly, or does your child experience difficulties at school or in social situations?

Behind a symptom, there is a cause. NEI helps you uncover the root of it.

Have you tried all kinds of things, but still find yourself facing the same obstacles?

Do you feel that your child isn’t feeling well, but you can’t quite put your finger on it?

Energetic Work

This alternative holistic method focuses on identifying and releasing the underlying cause of a complaint. Instead of merely addressing the symptoms, we look at what is happening on a deeper, often subconscious level. By resolving these blockages, space is created for healing.
Energetic work doesn't always have to take place in person. Because energy is not bound by time or location, it is also possible to work remotely – for example, using a recent photo.

Remote sessions

During remote energetic work, a session can take place in which your energy is tuned into using a photo you provide. This makes it possible to work with the biotensor and energetic methods on underlying blockages, emotions, or themes that are present. The session largely follows the same structure as a regular NEI session, but without your physical presence.

What I can do for you

Nei therapy

NEI therapy (Neuro Emotional Integration) is a gentle and effective method to identify and release unconscious blockages that could otherwise lead to emotional or physical complaints. By doing so, it helps restore your natural balance.

NEI can also be very beneficial for babies and children, especially when communication is still limited. Using the energetic measuring instrument called the Biotensor, we work directly with the subconscious mind. Without the need for long talk sessions, we quickly find the root of the complaints and begin to restore balance.

Once old patterns and blockages are released and the body’s natural self-healing ability is activated, symptoms on a physical, mental, and emotional level can diminish or disappear.

These sessions can take place remotely using a photo, through an online session, or in person.

Vanishing twin

One particularly deep and sensitive theme that may arise in NEI therapy is the vanishing twin experience. This refers to a phenomenon where a person starts life as a twin, but their brother or sister passes away (early) in the pregnancy. Although this is usually unconscious and no longer physically traceable, it can have a profound energetic and emotional impact on the life of the surviving twin.

People with a vanishing twin experience may carry an unconscious sense of incompleteness throughout their lives. They might struggle with deep sense of loss or loneliness, or carrying unexplained feelings of guilt or responsibility. It may also manifest as fear of attachment or abandonment, as well as a persistant sense of “searching for someone or something” without knowing what it is.

Through NEI therapy, this unconscious loss can be gently and lovingly brought to awareness and be integrated.
We create space for the grief, the connection, and the farewell—so that you can begin to feel whole and at peace within yourself again.

Family constellations

During my NEI sessions, I regularly incorporate family constellations as a powerful addition to the healing process. Family constellations help reveal unconscious dynamics that may be influencing your life. These are often patterns or emotional entanglements you can’t easily explain, yet they affect how you feel, the decisions you make, or how you experience relationships.

By gently and respectfully revealing these hidden patterns within the NEI method, space is created for awareness, healing, and transformation. You gain insights that support you in leting go of what isn’t truly yours to carry and reconnect with your authentic self.

Whether you're dealing with physical symptoms, emotional blocks, or recurring life patterns — a family constellation within an NEI session can bring surprising clarity and relief.

Areas Where NEI Therapy May Offer Support

With baby's

Crying excessively or being inconsolable (commonly known as “cry babies”)
Difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep
Reflux or intestinal cramps
Eczema
Complaints following a (difficult) pregnancy or birth

With Children

Low self-confidence in the classroom
Difficulty with changes or letting go
Fear of failure or performance pressure
Dyslexia
Limiting beliefs such as “I can’t do it anyway”
Restlessness or tension related to school

Physical Issues

Sleep problems
Pain complaints
Skin issues such as eczema or itching
Allergies or intolerances (with an emotional component)
Fatigue or low energy
Tension-related complaints, e.g. in the neck
Headaches or migraines

Emotional issues

Unexplained sadness or low mood
Feelings of anxiety
Fear of failure or insecurity
Low self-esteem
Inner restlessness or stress
Feeling stuck in old behavioral patterns
Past traumas that continue to have an impact

Mental issues

Questions about identity or life purpose
Recurring negative patterns or beliefs
Difficulty making decisions or indecisiveness
Difficulty letting go or a need for control
Chronic stress or mental exhaustion
Unconscious blocks that hinder personal growth

Work related

Stress or tension at work
(Impending) burnout
Dealing with criticism and self-doubt
Challenges in collaboration or teamwork
Difficulty setting boundaries or saying “no”
Perfectionism or fear of failure in the workplace
Lack of self-confidence in professional situations
Doubts about whether you’re still in the right place
Procrastination or lack of motivation

About me

My name is Vona Willink, and I’m the mother of two wonderful sons. They are my greatest source of inspiration and have shaped me deeply — not only as a person, but also as a therapist.
Motherhood has shown me how complex, vulnerable, and valuable life is — and how important it is to truly attune to what someone needs.

From this experience, and with a broad background in holistic work, Energy Reset by Vona was born: a practice where I support children, teenagers, and adults in returning to their natural balance — physically, emotionally, mentally, and energetically.

As a NEI therapist, I work with care and presence, so I can truly tune in.
My strength lies in quickly getting to the root of blockages and creating a safe space where you can relax, release, and reconnect with yourself — by activating your body’s natural ability to heal.

Thanks to my own life experience, professional training, and inner development, I’m able to work on multiple levels — whether it’s physical symptoms, emotions, behavior, or inner restlessness.

Energy Reset by Vona brings all of this together: my knowledge, my intuition, and my deep wish to guide others toward greater peace, trust, and vitality.

Through connection, I help you — or your child — rediscover the path to balance, confidence, and inner strength.

My qualifications

My professional journey began with a degree in Social Work and Services, after which I gained valuable experience working in guardianship services and with people facing homelessness. This period deeply shaped my commitment to supporting vulnerable individuals and my ability to truly see and understand people.

Later, I trained as a Waldorf (Steiner) teacher, immersing myself in anthroposophy and a holistic view of child development. During my many years working in practical education (a vocational setting for students with learning and behavioral challenges), I discovered my passion for guiding young people who don't always fit within the standard system.

To further deepen my expertise in education and guidance, I earned a Master’s degree in Special Educational Needs (SEN). This study gave me even more insight into working with children and adolescents who face learning and behavioral challenges, and how to truly offer personalized, supportive care within both education and therapeutic settings.

While working in special education, I was introduced to Positive Behaviour Support (PBS). This approach taught me to look beyond problem behavior and focus on what does work. PBS shaped the way I observe and interact: preventative, solution-focused, and always with attention to someone’s strengths and needs. This foundation continues to inform my work as an NEI therapist.

I also completed an NLP Practitioner training, which gave me valuable tools in understanding communication, behavioral patterns, and the power of language. NLP has helped me connect more effectively with others' experiences and support lasting, positive change.

In my personal and professional journey toward deeper healing and connection, I completed NEI Level 1 training at Energetisch Huis, where I learned to work with the subconscious and release energetic blockages. I then continued my studies with the Energetic Family Therapy training at Praktijk Charlotte, which offered a broader foundation including Nine Star Ki and Family Constellations.

All of these studies and experiences shape my way of working: professional, attentive, and deeply attuned. With head, heart, and hands, I guide children, young people, and families in a way that truly fits them.

Rates

Each session lasts approximately 60 to 90 minutes.

Your investment per session:
– €100 for remote sessions (with a written report)
– €125 for live or online sessions
- € 150 for international sessions (including tax)
Rates will be revised in fall '26

Please note: At the moment, I mostly have availability for remote sessions.

Looking for more space to go deeper?
Book a package of 3 sessions and receive a €25 discount — allowing you to take the time you need to work on what truly matters

Because I believe in making support accessible for the whole family, family members who follow the initial client receive a €10 discount per session.

Please note:
These sessions are not reimbursed by health insurance.

"I was struggling with bad cat allergies and could hardly live in my own home. Vona helped me with this over two sessions and now I have stopped my allergy medications and can spend time with my cat! Thank you Vona☺"

Julia

"I experienced a Nei therapy session with Vona and was deeply impressed. I wasn't sure what to expect, but from the moment she began speaking, her words resonated with me on a deep level. It was as if she could intuitively sense the direction my healing needed to take."

Valeria

“Vona has a gift for unlocking one's potential. She helped me let go of doubts and trust in my own ability to solve problems. Most importantly, she guided me in disconnecting from things that no longer served me."

Raymond

"I am so glad to have found another way to explore my path through NEI therapy. I highly recommend Vona to anyone seeking profound personal growth."

Paul